The demands and stress of life can wreak havoc on a marriage. Rough day at work, sick kids, unpaid bills… and before you know it, you’re arguing with your spouse about something that means nothing.
Sometimes what we really need is a way to remove ourselves from the demands of life and get away from it all. Don’t let the stress of life or disagreements rub your husband the wrong way. Smooth out the rough spots in your marriage by making time to re-focus on what’s really important in your marriage… your spouse!
CRAZY GOOD LOVIN’…
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Don’t make excuses or wait for the vacation of your dreams. You don’t have to hop a plane to escape to your own private island… YOU can be the escape your marriage (and husband) needs! Rub your husband the right way, get him to relax, and connect (literally) by taking him on a private get-a-way at home! (This is especially great for the men who’s love language is physical touch!)
WHAT YOU NEED TO HAVE…
- massage oil and/or lotion
- relaxing/romantic music
- a new “little blessing”
- optional: sparkling cider or champagne, strawberries & chocolate, or anything else that will add to his experience
Don’t forget to use the money from the Crazy Good Lovin’ Jar to buy everything you need!
WHAT YOU NEED TO DO…
Give him a full body massage he won’t soon forget in your new “little blessing”! A good massage is at least 30 minutes. Sometimes it may seem longer to you, so be sure to look at the clock by your bed before you begin! There are two options you could choose to do this…
PLAN A: Set up before your husband gets home, and then surprise him when he walks in the door by handing him the massage oil! You could also rent a hotel room for the night, which is still cheaper than plane tickets to a private island to escape!
PLAN B: If buying massage oils from amazon.com, have the box sent to your husband at work, or home as a surprise! Include a note that says,
I’m taking you far away from the stress of the world tonight. No need to pack clothing… you won’t need it!
Spoil yourself and make an appointment for yourself before you do this for your Beloved. That way you can pay close attention to what is done so you can go back home and do the same (and more) to your hubby!
ANOTHER CRAZY GOOD MOMENT…
Mark your calendar and set a reminder for some Crazy Good Lovin’ on October 5th… James Bond Day (007 Day) and The 12 Days of Christmas on December 14th – 25th! (Make this a gift last for the entire 12 days by picking a different body part to focus on each night… saving the best for last! *Check out the Spa of the World line at The Body Shop for great ideas!)